You will notice, your child/stepchild listens to you
Follows your instructions, well behaved & disciplined
Now you have built that emotional connection,
emotional trust, emotional bond with your
Stepchild/child
The problem is today’s world has been taken over by technology, so kids are constantly on their mobile devices often watching irrelevant, inappropriate stuff, bad things and following wrong advices, so this is the result,
1. Losing that emotional bond with their parents, especially moms
2. Learning from wrong behaviors from wrong videos
3. Being disobedient with their parents, especially moms
4. Googling wrong stuff in the internet
5. Watching random stuff in Social media and misbehaving
Resulting in the following behavior
1. Not listening to their parents at all
2. Not following instructions
3. Not learning good, morally appropriate important things that are needed to live a successful and happy life
4. The parents have not only lost the emotional bonding with the child, but also lost that connection and control over the child
So what can the parents do to solve this problem? Especially moms
The parents, especially moms need to build an emotional connection with the child, build that emotional bond with that child and make the child feel like the child is cared for, there is someone the child can talk to, there is someone that is there for the child to listen to.
How do you do this?
Do story telling using the Charismafy Mobile app.
You may ask – Hey why do I have to use the Charismafy mobile app, I would rather Google and find my own bed time stories – Yes you can but that takes longer, you will run into inappropriate stuff in the internet, while you are doing this, your child is also watching you and he/she is going to do the same, run into inappropriate stuff and learn bad things.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. You can indeed bond with your stepchild, it is possible, you don’t have to put up with this situation for the rest of your life.
A few ways to do this effectively is
1 – Find a common ground and do something that you enjoy doing together, it is not going to be easy to begin with, but as do more it gets better
2 – Sneak away for one on one time, Try to sneak away for a little 1:1 time occasionally. In the beginning, this shouldn’t be for extended periods of time, but it allows you time to get to know one another.
Ask questions like what is your favorite animal, what is your favorite subject in school, what’s your favorite activity to do after school, what do you want to be when you grow up, etc. Get to know your stepchildren, and allow them to ask you questions and to get to know you too!
It’s easiest to see the necessity for this when you look back on the start of your dating relationship with your spouse.
You needed to go on dates to get to know each other better before you really trusted each other, and the more you talked and got to know one another, the deeper your relationship grew. It’s the same thing with your stepchildren!
3 – Be the Entertaining one, the final tip for bonding with your stepchildren is to remember to act a little silly. Show them you’re human and not just a serious adult who is absolutely no fun at all.
Even when you’re doing something tedious or monotonous, you can have a little fun with it. I tend to use funny accents to talk to my stepdaughter when we’re in the car or grocery shopping, and I use fun chants and songs to help her remember her spelling words and times tables.
By using your best, most entertaining skills, you’re deepening that bond. You’re connecting on a new level with your stepchildren, and they’ll respond to it.
4 – Let them be little, these little people are dealing with some really complex emotions and they can have a tough time navigating the seemingly competing paths of bonding with their step parent and remaining loyal to their mom.
Sometimes these loyalty binds manifest in mood swings, “You’re not my mom!” exclamations, or general neediness for Dad when they’re around. Look past your own hurt and understand their perspective.
Your littles are just trying to learn how to live in this blended family life, like you and I are. Extend them a little grace, and remain steadfast through the storm. All relationships have ups and downs, and relationships with our stepchildren are no different.
Story telling is an awesome way to build that bond.
That is where the Charismafy app helps a lot, learn more down below.
Build strong emotional bond with your child by telling bed time stories that are powerful, impactful, relevant and breathtaking. Do this for 7 consecutive days as part of the free trial with the app for 30 minutes every day before going to sleep, you will see magical results.
Master the art of Story Telling, a simple skill set with a repository of stories you can choose & tell any time, Using Charismafy mobile app tell bed time stories every day and produce the following results
1. Build strong emotional connection / bond with your child
2. Now you not only have built an emotional bond, but also trust, your child is telling everything that is happening in its life
3. Now your child listens to you, follows your instructions thoroughly
4. Now your child is not misbehaving
5. Now your child is asking for your guidance / permission to do new things the child is not sure about
6. Your child is not lying to you
and you will see many magical results,
Charismay mobile app has the following
1. 2000+ curated stories
2. Morals at the end of each story for the child to learn from
3. Inspiring, relevant, impactful, perspective altering stories
4. Very quickly search for the appropriate stories to teach appropriate morals
5. Show them the power of hard work, perseverance, honesty, discipline, communication techniques, respecting others,
6. Learn from lives of great leaders, great scientists, great entrepreneurs, great statesmen, great kings, great generals, great warriors, amazing role models etc.
7. Build that confidence in your child
8. Controlled environment where only appropriate stories with morals are made available to your child,
9. Your child is not googling inappropriate stuff, not watching random videos and not taking bad advice from internet, social media
Try Charismafy mobile app for free today – Get the free trial
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